In a simpler time, you would write a note that said “Do you like me? Check yes or no…”, or make a phone call (from the now almost obsolete “home phone”) and ask someone to go to the movies…now you add people on a Social Networking Site and begin to follow their every status update, Tweet, or blog entry, and in essence, become an expert on the lives of all of your “friends.” And they you…be it business, personal, social, or otherwise…all of the world is watching…
The word of the year was recently coined to be “unfriend.” Definition: to delete someone from a social networking site. It beat out sexting, zombie bank, and 100’s of poignant terms born and bred in tech-la la land and reiterated across text lines, BBM’s, and every other text form of communication utilized by the masses.
So, in a time when freemiums, social networking, and hashtags are in the forefront of self promotion, advertising, and marketing, is unfriending the new(professional) break up?
The majority of us do not actually, intimately, or “know in person” all of our cyber friends. Come on, I have 910 facebook friends- about 100 of which I actually interact with in person on a semi-regular basis. However, when I log on if I see that I have less friends than the last time, I begin to search and try to figure out who unfriended me…was it a client? a colleague? a friend? a prospect? OMG WHERE DID YOU GO UNKNOWN UNFRIEND? lol!
And furthermore, does unfriending speak louder than Tweeting?
If we as Real Estate professionals do a bad job (not that that would happen lol), drop the ball, break a promise, don’t deliver, or make a mistake…everyone can potentially know about it nowadays. And tweets speak louder than testimonials to many…So, if we are unfriended and (text-assaulted unbeknowst to us somewhere in Cyber World to boot), the bad word of mouth and lack of exposure from that person will hurt…Not only our egos, but how we are percieved, and how we are able to utilize this beautifully crafted outlet of communication, advertising, and marketing that we have at our disposal via social networking.
Unfriending is the ultimate diss when it’s by our romantic interests, the ultimate good bye if it’s from someone from our past, the ultimate slap in the face if it’s from a real friend whom we may be fighting with, and the ultimate “you really screwed up” if it’s from our clients…
So, what do ya think? Unfriending, is it the new professional break up?
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